You’re Fighting and Then You’re Fucking… How?
Hot Couples Everywhere Are Getting into Ficking (aka Fight Fucking)
Last night the guy that I’ve been seeing and I got into it. To keep it short, we have differing opinions on the state our openness with other relationships should be. Maybe he’s trying to cowboy rope me into being monogamous. Maybe I’m trying to have the whole world. Perhaps it’s a little bit of both from both of us and we’re both right and wrong at the same time.
Regardless. I’m not going to go into that too much because it’s still quite fresh and that doesn’t seem fair to him.
What I do want to talk about since it is Weird Sex Wednesday is Fight Fucking. This past night has brought up a bunch of unanswered questions.
Why do we often end up fucking the person we’re fighting with?
Is it one of those things where the two people are both trying to prove something to each other?
Are they trying to hold onto each other even if the end is near?
Are they trying to hold onto each other so the end will not be near? Like, “remember this move? Yeah, you’re going to miss this pussy/dick/ass/etc. so we better make it right.”
What is the likelihood that the couple will continue on that trajectory? Like, almost rewarding each other for fighting.
Is it healthy?
Is it just something that happens?
To be honest, I haven’t been in a relationship for quite a while.
The last guy I liked well enough to want to be in a relationship ended up being clinically depressed and rejecting my invitation to become my boyfriend. That was during cuffing season, so sure, it was only a few months ago, but it was not a relationship.
Prior to that was my temporary / accelerated Burner boyfriend. We both knew he was going to leave after a month in the states, so it was easy to not get attached.
Before those two, it’s been like 4 years and that guy ended up fleeing the country because I fucked it up so badly (and an assortment of other reasons).
So yeah, here I am. So used to being independent. Strong. Free. Used to the one-night stands. The friend-with-benefit that leaves after two weeks to get back together with his ex-girlfriend. The guys who are emotionally unavailable so I become that too.
I don’t know how to be a girlfriend. Not really. Not like regular people do.
I’m scared. I push back. I fight with the guy I actually like. I don’t want him to go, but I don’t trust myself. So I hold on. We hold on a bit longer. And maybe after the fighting and the fucking and the fighting there will be something more to hold onto.
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